{"id":558,"date":"2022-02-23T10:03:44","date_gmt":"2022-02-23T15:03:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sportsgrumblings.com\/?page_id=558"},"modified":"2024-08-07T21:56:05","modified_gmt":"2024-08-08T01:56:05","slug":"william-del-pilar","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/grumblingsmedia.com\/newgmweb\/william-del-pilar\/","title":{"rendered":"William Del Pilar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/grumblingsmedia.com\/newgmweb\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sports-grumblings-del-pilar-about-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"Conservative Latino - William Del Pilar\" class=\"wp-image-549\" srcset=\"https:\/\/grumblingsmedia.com\/newgmweb\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sports-grumblings-del-pilar-about-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/grumblingsmedia.com\/newgmweb\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sports-grumblings-del-pilar-about-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/grumblingsmedia.com\/newgmweb\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sports-grumblings-del-pilar-about-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/grumblingsmedia.com\/newgmweb\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sports-grumblings-del-pilar-about.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>My Latino culture never came before being American growing up. Until I got to college and left my diverse town of Fayetteville, NC, or &#8220;Fayettenam,&#8221; as we call it, I was oblivious to culture. My culturally diverse friends would probably say I never mentioned culture or race. We were friends, and race didn&#8217;t matter to us. Some didn&#8217;t even realize I was Latino.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am Latino, Puerto Rican and Panamanian. I speak, read, and write Spanish. I grew up speaking Spanglish, but English is the predominant language as I went to American schools, as most American citizens do. I spoke English at school and Spanish at home. It was easier because my mother barely knew English. I&#8217;m conservative with libertarian leanings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I firmly believe in the belief, &#8220;Where there&#8217;s a will, there&#8217;s a way.&#8221; Why? I&#8217;ve endured the challenges of military training, succeeded while working for a nonprofit organization, and, as an entrepreneur, built teams of employees whom I viewed as my extended family. I push individuals to give me above and beyond 100%, teaching them and molding them into future thinkers, managers, and leaders.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My family and friends understand I don&#8217;t sugarcoat the truth. I&#8217;m not the friend who will agree because we&#8217;re friends. I consider my friends as family, and I speak the unvarnished truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ironically, I&#8217;m also a former elected politician in my small community. As a politician, I learned most don&#8217;t care about or listen to the people they represent but merely use their positions to push their beliefs. They view their constituents as too dimwitted, and some outright don&#8217;t care about their constituents, putting party and ideology first. I realized this firsthand and realized most are beholden and loyal to their donor base, not their constituents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-left\"><strong>FROM A BOY TO A MAN \u2013 UNITED STATES NAVY<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Despite being freshman class president, enjoying the social life, the parties, and the girls, I still wanted to travel and party more than go to college. Since I was paying my way through school, and my grades were probably similar to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.breitbart.com\/politics\/2012\/10\/24\/obamas-transcripts-biden-in-1987\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">Barack Hussein Obama&#8217;s<\/a>, which is why he likely refuses to show them, I decided to experience the world. It was also my first adult decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, I joined the military. I have no regrets and am proud of my choice to this day. I visited nearly every country in Central and South America and much of the Caribbean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I learned discipline and responsibility but realized the military was not what I wanted as a career. Yet, I entered the armed forces as a boy who thought he understood everything and, nearly seven years later, left a man with an honorable discharge. Appreciating the opportunities America gave us with the world as my oyster, I returned to school, became a &#8220;Dean&#8217;s List&#8221; student, and earned my degree.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The United States Navy was my biggest influence. My experience taught me how to deal with various levels of management and how the United States differs from the rest of the world. As I learned responsibility, accountability, and the importance of working in a team environment, I developed an expertise in leadership.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">STUDYING SMALL BIZ AND ENTREPRENEURSHIP<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In my final years in the military, I fell in love with fantasy football but didn&#8217;t understand my career path yet. Little did I realize the world of nonprofits and giving back would come first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Alzheimer&#8217;s Association<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I learned the nuances of a small business from the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.alz.org\/sandiego\">San Diego Chapter Alzheimer&#8217;s Association<\/a> (now called Alzheimer&#8217;s San Diego). I managed events and fundraisers and moved the organization forward technologically. By managing the association&#8217;s computer systems update, we built a network, converted an old database to modern standards, and created, managed, and maintained an Internet site, thus vaulting our local chapter into the modern era. We had little to work with as a nonprofit to succeed, yet we had significant successes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>We developed programs to raise funds that the national organization implemented.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We used volunteers more effectively versus allowing them to be social outlets.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We pushed our superiors to keep the promises that they rarely kept.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We built success despite a shoestring budget.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Realization<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Our organization grew, but one day, I realized I could never enjoy some aspects of life Americans dream about, specifically, financial security. Holidays with the family when we wanted, not when we could afford them. Financial security in an emergency, being my own boss, and many other reasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No matter how satisfying it is, making pennies at a nonprofit would not cut it in pursuing what I wanted out of life. I would not be one of those that made it a career and enriched myself through dollars donated. Financial donations are meant to help the cause, not help purchase my next BMW. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, that&#8217;s what many do in the nonprofit sector. Then they rationalize and justify it to themselves and those around them. The one belief I always discover is that they&#8217;re helping the poor and those who can&#8217;t help themselves. You know, the &#8220;savior complex,&#8221; thus they deserve it along with coming in late, going home early, padded expenses, etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, for a while, I did both. It nearly killed me because I was a walking zombie working 18\u201322 hour workdays. That&#8217;s not an exaggeration. Eventually, I decided to damn the benefits and steady paycheck and not let fear rule me and be a full-time entrepreneur or small business owner. Whatever you want to call it, I was on my own with no safety net, and while scary, it was exhilarating too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--nextpage-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">PIONEERING AND COMMERCIALIZING A NEW INDUSTRY \u2013 KFFL.COM<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Before the ease of owning a laptop, one day in college, I was in the computer science room. There was a program on the computer. It was called &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Netscape\">Netscape<\/a>.&#8221; It allowed us to scour the Internet. It opened the door to the commercialization of the Internet. I dreamed about the possibility of bringing fantasy sports to the masses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Only a dream, but one day, the better half, irritated I spent more time on fantasy football than her, said, I should figure out how to make money with that as much as I love it. Now, she didn&#8217;t say it out of love but sarcasm with a large hint of anger. Yet, it was the catalyst. Even before I graduated, I recruited partners, and we started our own company. Eventually, becoming the majority owner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I brought together the team that built <a href=\"http:\/\/web.archive.org\/web\/20100705084845\/http:\/\/www.kffl.com\/\">KFFL.com<\/a> &#8211; a site housing a few fantasy football leagues that we rebranded into a full-fledged content site. We survived much. Shoestring budgets, losing partners, disputes, and the Dot-com bubble collapse (1999-2001). Yet, we persevered, and I am proud, with my partners, to have begun KFFL.com with a simple yet creative idea. Launching from our homes with no amenities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the fledgling fantasy sports industry, we grew into a leader in player news, content, and services, generating some of the industry\u2019s largest traffic. We built a profitable business by creating both B2B and B2C premium content and services with online advertising, resulting in multiple business and writing awards and many fantasy championships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>We incorporated statistical analysis into player rankings and content to fulfill consumer needs and help players become champions using data, analysis of non-data factors, and wait for it, common sense.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Radio and television appearances include Chris Myers on FOX Sports Radio and Rich Eisen on NFL Network&#8217;s NFL Total Access. That&#8217;s right; we were the NFL Network&#8217;s first fantasy analysts, and I was good to the point, Myers kept me on for two years longer than his network wanted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You see, they had their own fantasy analysts. Yet, Myers viewed me as one of the best &#8220;NFL insiders&#8221; because of my ability to gather the details of the news, others didn&#8217;t. Although I repeatedly said I was not an &#8220;insider&#8221; like Jay Glazer or Chris Mortensen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>We created online videos and podcasts &#8211; before the term podcast. Back then, some called it &#8220;Internet Radio.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Creating B2B partnerships with NFL.com, NFL Network, Yahoo! Sports, FOXSports.com, CBS SportsLine.com, SportsTicker, RTSports, MyFantasyLeague.com, and others increased brand recognition. Yes, we dominated the industry!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Before it was common in marketing and advertising, we used website analytics to provide better consumer content and smarter placement for advertisers.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>We continually challenged our programming team to develop new programs to help consumers make fantasy football decisions. We built programs on who to start, bench, trade evaluations, custom cheat sheets, rankings, and statistical-based formulas. You may go, &#8220;big deal,&#8221; but it was a big deal with all the technological limitations back then!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Our techs even built our own CMS, because, at the time, there were no CMS programs you could buy. We also worked with our business partners to integrate our products seamlessly with their platforms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>KFFL succeeded in all this. Time.com listed us as one of the ten essential sports sites for fans, athletes, and fantasy owners. We also captured dozens of expert league championships. There were television and magazine write-ups, praising and acknowledging our work as some of the best, if not the best. There were industry and individual awards, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of our proudest moments was when the CBS NFL pregame show featured us. To this day, I believe we were one of the first fantasy sports companies Americans saw. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Through KFFL, America learned what fantasy football and fantasy sports were all about \u2013 being an armchair QB and owning our friends with our superior sports knowledge.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>KFFL.com was a founding member of the Fantasy Sports Trade Association (FSTA), now the Fantasy Sports Gaming Association (FSGA), an international business organization dedicated to fantasy sports. Members from small startups to large media companies provide demographic data, annual conferences, and collective action, including lobbying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Obviously, we became a respected industry leader, leading to the company&#8217;s eventual sale. Immediately following the sale, I continued to operate KFFL.com and served on Fantasy Sports Ventures&#8217; Board of Directors, helping to guide the company and its 400 affiliates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This job was the American dream for me. I am a former member of the Pro Football Writers of America (PFWA), served as a board member of the Fantasy Sports Trade Association (FSTA), and the Fantasy Sports Writers Association (FSWA). I&#8217;m in the FSWA Hall of Fame and was a premier fantasy player.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Despite this, shortly after selling the company (now owned and dissolved by Gannett), I walked away from it all. The ugly side of business reared its head. Betrayal, greed, nepotism, and corruption, yet I have no regrets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Struggles make success sweeter, and I am honored because I can look back at my life, and smile that KFFL.com helped usher in a new industry. A billion-dollar industry with thousands of employees. How many five-seven Latinos can say this? Few.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>America provided me with opportunities few other countries could. I eventually left the fantasy sports industry, but not before working my dream job and helping Pro Football Weekly build out its fantasy section. I then left, believing that I would come back with a new fantasy sports project. I am back! However, it took longer than I thought.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The political bug hit me hard as a former entrepreneur, business owner, and Latino. I got angry that Democrats continued to make victims of and use minorities to further political aims that wouldn&#8217;t help anyone, despite their words. I was proof of American success versus being a victim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--nextpage-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">THE AWAKENING OR &#8220;WOKE&#8221; AS LEFTISTS SAY<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Minorities and all Americans, regardless of race, color, or creed, have fewer opportunities than I do today because of an oppressive government stifling entrepreneurs across the country. We had a brief respite when Donald Trump became president, as America enjoyed an economic boom and the lowest unemployment rate in our history. Love him or hate him, those two statements are fact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yet, today, entrepreneurism and minority business growth are struggling because of a Democrat Party with support from RINO (Republican in Name Only) Republicans. When KFFL.com started, it was no picnic in the park either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Social Media: Creating the Greatest Cultural and Racial Divide since the Civil War!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Social media is now part of our lives, but did you know we had BBS, CompuServe, and AOL before the Internet? AOL took it to another level, creating a massive social network. When you logged on to AOL, you were logging onto the largest social network at the time. We have always had social media online. It didn&#8217;t start with Twitter and Facebook.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Next came the commercialization of the Internet, which led to an explosion of new ideas, changing old industries, creating new ones, and transforming B2B and B2C relations. That gave us Classmates.com, SixDegrees.com, and culture-specific sites. Then came Friendster, Myspace, and now we have Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, and many more new ones still sprouting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Twitter brought cultural and racial politics to a new level &#8211; both good and bad. Large-scale social media allows us to follow and socialize easily with like-minded individuals in real-time. The bad side to this is tribalism. That&#8217;s when you&#8217;re only loyal to one&#8217;s tribe or group.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In politics, it&#8217;s ideology first. Ignore the bad of your tribe and rationalize it away while continuing a battle of hate toward opponents. The Democrat Party, using <a href=\"https:\/\/bolenreport.com\/saul-alinskys-12-rules-radicals\/\">&#8220;Alinsky tactics,&#8221;<\/a> has mastered this and, with the help of the mainstream media and current tech giants, &#8220;own&#8221; most Republicans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Yet, there&#8217;s been a rapid rise in a voice muffled by decades of lies and revisionist history yet growing in strength, the conservative minority.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s what got me involved in politics. It started when I understood the news media&#8217;s bias. I&#8217;d always known it was there, but the news media no longer hid their ideology and disdain for Republicans and conservatives after the presidential election of 2000 and their failed attempt to overturn it. I saw it in the beat reporters we hired. I saw it everywhere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Despite what we want to believe, we ingrain politics in every aspect of our lives. We may not see it, but it&#8217;s there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--nextpage-->\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">My Epiphany<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Being young, I was a liberal with dreams of graduating with a degree in political science and saving the world. After high school, I worked a year and partied, saved some dollars, and then went to college. I met and considered what I thought was a good human being and a Democrat, a would-be-mentor, a friend. He was a &#8220;returning student&#8221; and thirty-something, involved with the Democrat Party. He held a political science study group when I was a freshman in college. As freshman class president and would-be radical, I looked forward to my destiny! Okay, maybe not that dramatic, but you get the point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Specifically, my would-be-mentor, who was charismatic, indoctrinated minorities into liberal ideology and its implications for them. When I mentioned my Spanish heritage, he said Republicans also held Latinos back because we weren&#8217;t white. I glanced around and looked at my skin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since I am a light-skinned Latino, that meant separating me from my cousins, who are black and brown. Even my older sisters had different features, as one was slightly darker and the other had what I would now describe as Indian and Asian features. In looks, she is her mother&#8217;s daughter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People rarely ever knew, looking at us, that my mother was my mother. They always assumed she was the mother of the Asian kid. There wasn&#8217;t always an easy way to recognize my siblings as my sisters outside of my younger sister. Even then, our Panamanian relatives and friends would look stunned, realizing one of us had blue eyes, and the other had green.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a Democrat&#8217;s world, mi Abuelita, who had been called the &#8220;N&#8221; word about a decade prior, should not acknowledge me as her grandson. Aunts and uncles too! Simply because of skin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was shocking because our skin wasn&#8217;t tying us together, but this man told me that&#8217;s precisely what bound us together. It felt like he wanted and didn&#8217;t care about separating me from my family with words from an ideology purposely meant to divide us. Words of hate! I immediately loathed him for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As soon as I heard him say whites caused all minority problems, especially black Americans, I thought, &#8220;Whoa, I have lazy Panamanian and Puerto Rican relatives and friends. Blacks and whites, too.&#8221; At that moment, I realized my view of my fellow countrymen was different from the Democrat Party. I see us as equals and not as part of a group to label and denounce one group&#8217;s actions over another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My youth taught me we are all individuals and that teamwork breeds success. I learned this from sports and then the military. I have played sports all my life and served alongside blacks, Latinos, Asians, Native Americans, and yes, even whites and others with different cultural backgrounds. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>I eventually saw the Democrat Party teaching a victim mentality, which goes against every American belief to achieve success and freedom.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&#8220;OMG! I&#8217;m a Republican!&#8221;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>For me, blaming one group for all of society&#8217;s ills is not logical. It made no sense and is an excuse for not looking in the mirror. I knew that even at a young age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>At that meeting, I also realized, &#8220;OH, MY, GOD! I&#8217;m a Republican! How can I be a Republican?&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>How can I be a Republican? They only believe in the &#8220;almighty dollar.&#8221; Only later did I understand the truth. I&#8217;m conservative, but I&#8217;d never heard the term. Eventually, I would, but I later realized I also had libertarian beliefs that put me at odds with some Republicans. Regardless, I knew I wasn&#8217;t a Democrat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Reagan or &#8220;I Yam What I Yam&#8221; ~ Popeye the Sailor Man<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It wasn&#8217;t necessarily ideology initially, but the want of helping my fellow man I saw as a responsibility of all of us. To be of help to anyone, you must be strong. It was the actions of a president that helped me formulate my beliefs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My first vote was for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reaganlibrary.gov\">Ronald Reagan<\/a> way back in 1984! Reagan&#8217;s conservatism escaped me, and I didn&#8217;t care if he was a Republican. I understood he had taken the country from the brink and saved us from policies destroying us. He brought respect to America across the world, thus ensuring keeping bad actors in check.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He had brought us out of a horrific era. Gas shortages and high prices, long lines, manufacturing dying, millions of jobs lost, inflation, taxes that were destroying us, and more. Even as a kid, this was obvious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then came the hostage crisis in Iran. An embarrassment. America humiliated. Lack of respect for the country internationally. Panamanians viewed America at the time as its protector, so I always viewed America as the good guys. Especially knowing America allowed my mother to help &#8220;mi tia y tio y primos&#8221; get out of poverty into middle-class.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Reagan helped me understand America&#8217;s good and realized the bad with large government bureaucracies. He made me know bad actors wake up every morning without thinking about the consequences of anything they do without a strong America.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If our enemies view America as weak and impotent, they act out. With the Iranian Crisis, Crimea, and Ukraine, among others, these actions prove this true. When is America weak? Look at Joe Biden, Barrack Hussein Obama, and Jimmy Carter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With the Iranian hostage crisis, even as a kid, I felt Jimmy Carter was an embarrassment. Carter&#8217;s weakness and impotence appalled me. But I just knew Reagan would change that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In my youth, we had four channels &#8211; ABC, CBS, NBC, PBS &#8211; and most families only owned one television. Our family watched the news daily and Walter Cronkite every night. We lived President Jimmy Carter&#8217;s failing economy every evening, and I never forgot that. In 1984, I chose Reagan over Carter&#8217;s former vice-president, Walter Mondale, to continue his run and keep us great. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ronald Reagan taught me the value of a strong America for both the individual and the world.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Still, I hadn&#8217;t thought about what a Democrat or Republican truly stood for. Years later, I realized the fundamental difference between Republicans and Democrats and Republicans and conservatives and libertarians.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Reagan opened the door for me to recognize and understand my values. Flawed as they may be, they are the best avenue for us to live the American dream. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Renowned economist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=RWsx1X8PV_A&amp;t=143s\">Milton Friedman said it best about capitalism on &#8220;The Phil Donahue show<\/a>,&#8221; to Donahue, a utopian believing leftist. <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Growing up in Panama, as an American, with relatives and friends living under the dictatorships of Omar Torrijos and Manuel Noriega, I appreciate what America has. Freedom and opportunities that have strengthened my work ethic. I live the American dream and believe it is my responsibility to give back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>They&#8217;re the values of individualism as an American. Uniting when we must and helping each other to thrive and succeed.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<!--nextpage-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">TODAY AND THE FUTURE<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>After my epiphany and before the Internet, I always assumed conservative minorities were few, but social media changed that. Conservative minority voices appear daily, and I realize I, we, are not alone. I see a growing movement. Albeit, slowly, but growing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have seen the underbelly of third-world countries, from life in the cities to life in the jungles. Despite the hardships those people face, they taught me and made me appreciate what I have. They&#8217;re hardworking, surviving to provide for their families, yet most will never get out of their vicious third-world poverty circle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, Americans can if they choose to. The difference is that simple. There are reasons legal and illegal immigrants flee to America. No, it&#8217;s not because of the free handouts but the opportunity to live the American dream. I see America as they do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>The lessons I learned were a blessing, and I realize we Americans squander more opportunities in a lifetime than those families will see in generations. We take for granted and don&#8217;t understand the opportunities this country gives us compared to others.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>I want my fellow Americans to know what we have and not destroy it or waste it. If we do, we lose the &#8220;exceptionalism&#8221; of what separates us from the rest of the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Conservative minorities understand that. It&#8217;s why most try to help others survive, thrive, and prosper by teaching and showing them how. I saw this firsthand with my mother helping her family in Panama and immigrants. You may know them in history as &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietnameseboatpeople.org\">boat people<\/a>.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They were Vietnamese, escaping a war-torn land, looking for freedom and opportunity. Our government promised some this opportunity. In return for help during the &#8220;Vietnam War,&#8221; they&#8217;d get to come to America. Like many Afghans and Iraqis, betrayal awaited, and they left most behind. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yet, the American dream kept them alive. Choosing to cross the open ocean wasn&#8217;t just storms and overcrowded boats they feared, but pirates who would board and rape the women and kill the men. Food and water running out, and more, but they persevered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once here and processed, my mother helped put them on the path to the American dream. Eventually, she took me to their new businesses like a proud mama bear, and I listened. You would think my mother was Jesus and carried them here while walking on water, the way they talked about her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She would drive them to wherever they needed to go. Make sure they signed up for government services. They enrolled in the right classes, especially classes to learn English, which is ironic, considering my mother is the worst English speaker I&#8217;ve encountered. HA!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She was their guide and, in their eyes, someone noble and virtuous. You see, being new in a strange land, not knowing the language, can be the scariest proposition in anyone&#8217;s life. You feel isolated and alone, and she helped them through that. That wasn&#8217;t the end. 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